When you have been together for a long time, you may fall into a period of weariness.
This is mostly due to a lack of affectionate expression.
There may be a period of weariness when love has cooled down, but there are also times when there is still affection and love between you, but it has cooled down somehow and you are not expressing it.
No matter how much you like the person you are talking to, if you don't communicate it properly, their romantic feelings will often be hazy.
So what are some of the ways to express such affection?
Here are nine different ways to express your love successfully.
A love that can't be conveyed is a love that slowly leaves you feeling distant.
The pitfall is thinking that the message will be understood.
Couples tend to fall into the trap of thinking that they know that they love each other, and that their expressions of affection become neglected, and eventually small discrepancies add up to a big fatality.
It often leads to a breakup when it becomes a major fatality.
If love is not communicated properly, there will be cracks in the relationship.
In addition, couples who have been together for a long time tend to repeat “I know” and “I understand” to each other, and some couples feel embarrassed to express their affection now.
However, expressing affection is a very important behavior for people to have a long-lasting relationship with others.
When love is not communicated, it causes anxiety and doubt.
People's love is limitless, but on the other hand, it can be frustrating if it is not fulfilled in both directions.
When they don't feel loved, they complain that they are the only ones who love, or they lose confidence that they are the only ones who love.
The problem with this kind of insecurity is that the fear of not being able to get to the core of the other person's feelings can cause your own love life to cool down, or even raise the suspicion that the other person has already cooled down and is moving on to the next love.
If you treat others with anxiety and doubt, they will feel it.
This is a vicious cycle, as the person who feels untrustworthy will become more and more distant from expressing affection, and we will feel less and less affection from them.
Love thrives when there is an expression of affection.
Even if you are embarrassed, expressing affection is worth the effort.
It makes me happy when someone tells me they like me.
If people think you are necessary, you will feel confident that you are valuable to them.
Just thinking about it will not convey this.
We need to let them know what we feel by expressing our love for them.
Expressing affection is a way of communicating to enhance each other's feelings and can be a useful way to enhance the romantic relationship between two people.
Here are some of the ways to express your love that will make him happy.
Straightforward words will touch your heart.
Tell her honestly that you love her.
First is the language.
Words are one of the easiest ways for anyone to start expressing affection.
First of all, express your feelings of love openly and honestly.
You can say it lightly on a daily basis, but if you use it lightly, as if you were telling everyone, its effect will be reduced by half.
If you tell him that you love him in a small way, he will feel that he is loved.
It is also important to say “I love you” on a daily basis.
In this case, use the words in a way that you know you are only talking to him, so as not to cheapen the words.
Speak your mind straight and without pretense.
Not only saying “I love you” but also expressing your true feelings in a straightforward manner is itself an expression of love.
Only in front of him do you expose your negative and positive emotions, such as things that are difficult to say, things that are painful for you, and things that make you sad.
Emotional exposure can only be done by someone you trust.
Speaking to him straightforwardly with your true feelings is a message that says, “I trust you.
You can only do this with a trusted friend or lover, so they can feel that you like them.
Compliment him on his good qualities in a specific way.
There is another way to express your affection using words, and that is to tell him in concrete terms what you like about him.
You know what's good about him.
Tell him the wonderful things you know about him as well as the wonderful things you know about him.
You never need to force yourself to make good points and flatter yourself.
Flattery may feel good for a while, but as you cool down, it will make you doubt your reputation.
You know what's good about him.
This is also the purpose of communicating this.
People like people who find the good in them.
Finding his good points and praising them not only makes him happy by telling him what's good about him, but it also tells him that you understand him.
Everyday expressions of affection to be shown through actions
Do not miss out on skin-to-skin contact.
The next step is to express affection through skinship.
Although many couples often find that skinship gradually decreases over the course of their relationship, it is very important to feel each other's body heat through skinship.
It is not only an expression of affection, but also an act of realizing the presence of the other person.
Skinship is more than just kissing, body touching, and hugging.
You can use your knees for snoozing or, if you are okay with it, you can scratch your ears.
Ear scratching can be a relaxing interaction, especially since you expose your vulnerable state to your partner.
Skin-to-skin contact is a great way to relieve the stress of hibernation by feeling each other's body heat in a real way.
Take it easy on them, but not too hard.
Exposing your own vulnerability to your partner is another way to express your love.
Beg him to do things that you can't or won't say to other people.
It is important not to spoil your partner to the point of being a burden, but spoiling your partner to the point of taking his capacity into consideration is one way to let him know that you need him.
Taking capacity into account will also give him the opportunity to feel joy and confidence that what he can do for you is not an impossible task, but a useful one.
Many women shy away from being pampered because it seems to benefit only them, but a man who cannot be pampered at all can lose his own value as a man.
Being well spoiled is a surprisingly important expression of affection.
Subtly support his week points.
Communicating one's self-worth is an expression of affection, basically because people want to feel confident.
On the contrary, it is when one's shortcomings and failures come to light that leads to a loss of confidence.
We are all human beings, so we all have faults and failures.
A woman who knows these week points and is able to get along with them looks very attractive to men.
Also, no matter how much you like him, it is counterproductive to deal with his flaws in a way that makes you stand out.
This could lead to the act of bringing his shortcomings to light, and his confidence could be further eroded.
Men feel affection when you gently follow up on their week points as a way to support them.
For example, a woman who tells a man to “be healthy” on a daily basis is not only a caring person, but also a mother figure.
However, gently offering him a nutritional drink or making him a cup of coffee when he is tired is an act of love for him.
If you have someone around you who can look out for you and casually lend a hand when you are feeling weak, you will have the power to do your best.
And it will also reaffirm your love for support.
Sexual displays of affection
Tell the other person how good it feels.
Some of the most important scenes for expressing affection are sexual in nature.
It can be difficult to know what kinds of things are expressions of affection involving sex and sexual attraction, because people don't show it very often.
Sex is a time for mutual feelings and sensations to come into contact with each other, as it is called communication.
The important thing is to be able to communicate that you feel the communication is worthwhile.
An expression of affection that is appreciated at the right time is a way to let the other person know that you are being made to feel good by them.
You can tell them straight out in words, or you can tell them with your voice.
If they know that you are feeling good, they will love you more for making them feel good about themselves, and they will love you more for making them feel good about themselves.
Use body touch to find the point of the other person.
It's not only important for you to feel good, but also for your partner to feel good.
Just as you feel love when you feel good, it is also loving to see the other person trying their best to please you.
During and before the act, use body touch to find the points that make your partner feel good, and include requests on how you want them to be touched.
Advanced techniques are actually not very important.
In fact, some people have a negative impression of techniques that are too advanced, because they make you feel like an expert or a flicker of the shadow of the previous man.
The best way to express your love is to show how much you want to make them feel good.
Subtly show off your daily care and efforts
During ragtime when you expose your body, the changes in your body will be clearly visible to your partner.
Expressing affection is not the only thing to do at this time.
The fact that you are making a daily effort to look more beautiful to your partner is also an expression of affection.
A woman who makes an effort for herself is cute to men.
If you feel more beautiful than usual when you touch each other, you will feel love for her efforts.
If they tell you that you've become a little slender or that your skin feels great, let them know that you've worked a little harder.
It's good to say “for him”, but it's more teasing if you say you want him to look better.
summary
Expressions of affection are the lubricant that keeps a romantic relationship alive.
Don't be shy to put it into action straight away.
If you are shy, you will embarrass each other.
Being shy is not a bad thing, but if you are too shy, you will tend to shy away from expressing your affection, so cherish the feeling of wanting to express your affection inside of you and don't be afraid to do so.
The expression of affection is not only for him, but also for you, him, and both of you.
References
- The Verbal Expression of Love by Women and Men as a Critical Communication Event in Personal Relationships
- Gender Differences in the Verbal Expression of Love Schema
- LOVE AS SENSORY STIMULATION: PHYSIOLOGICAL CONSEQUENCES OF ITS DEPRIVATION AND EXPRESSION
- Love and sex role stereotypes: Do macho men and feminine women make better lovers?
