I had been looking forward to our date, but the day before, I got sick.
Some of you may have had that experience.
Canceling the date the day before because you're sick is too common an excuse for an unwilling date and will make him suspicious.
I'm actually really looking forward to it, and definitely want to go!
Many women worry about how to convey their feelings to their boyfriend so that he will understand them.
Here are some tips on what to do if you get sick the day before your date, for those of you who are wondering whether to go recklessly or postpone.
Please refer to this article to avoid strained relations with him.
Basically, let's cancel it.
“Some women force themselves to go out because they don't want to worry him, or make him think that they don't like him, or that they didn't really want to go on a date. Some women force themselves to go out on a date because they don't want to worry him, don't want him to hate them, and don't want him to think that they didn't really want to go out on a date.
However, the best thing to do is to be honest and cancel.
If it was a travel date, cancelling the day before would incur a cancellation fee, and there would be a great desire to go.
However, if you force yourself to go out and your health deteriorates even more on the trip, you will cause him even more trouble.
Also, if you are a student or a working adult, it is difficult to take time off from work even if you are sick.
It's also important to be considerate so that you don't pass on your illness to him.
Call to cancel, if possible.
Cancelling a date is hard to say.
You may be tempted to send him a text message because it's hard to say, but that will make him think that you didn't really want to date him. But this will make him think that you didn't really want to date him.
It is important to apologize properly and sincerely over the phone.
In that case, the first thing you should do is to tell her that you want to cancel tomorrow's date and apologize.
Then tell them why.
If you ramble on about why you can't get a date first, you will inevitably end up making excuses.
Basically, men want a concise explanation.
Unless you are in a feverish state of unconsciousness, talk about it in a clear and orderly manner.
It's important to be sorry for the inconvenience.
Even if he lightly blames you for not feeling well, don't get upset and say, “I was looking forward to it too! I was looking forward to it, too!” is not the way to go.
It's understandable that you want him to take care of himself, but blaming him is just taking it out on him.
And even if they tell you to take care of yourself, apologize properly.
If you don't convey this feeling, people may think that you canceled the date because you didn't want to go out.
If not, it is important to admit that you were at fault for not taking care of yourself.
Even though they are lovers, make sure you get that part right.
A sincere response will surely be conveyed to him.
If possible, we'll make another appointment right then and there.
If you are feeling well enough to take a few days off, you can arrange a date for the next time.
By saying, “Please let me apologize for canceling the date,” you can let him know that you really wanted to go on the date, and he will be happy to hear that.
At that time, it would be a good idea to add a little something extra to the usual date, such as a small gift.
However, this time, be sure to take care of yourself so that you don't have to cancel because you don't feel well.
If you disappoint her twice in a row, she will think that it might happen again even if you arrange another date.
If it were the other way around, you would probably be thinking, “Again? If you were in the opposite position, you would probably be thinking, “Again?
Put yourself in the other person's shoes and think about it.
Also watch his reaction when you tell him you're canceling.
Cancelled the day before.
From his point of view, he had been looking forward to it so much! I'm sure he feels the same way.
However, when you apologize, his reaction is the most genuine.
If he blames you for canceling, it is possible that he does not miss you, but is just annoyed that his plans have been changed.
No one likes to be cancelled.
However, those who still continue to say things they can't help saying will probably say the same thing when you get sick in the future.
When the body is weak, the mind tends to be weak as well.
You may notice things that you normally wouldn't notice.
On the other hand, if the person worries about you to the point that you feel sorry for them, it shows that they really care about you.
This physical illness was probably a good opportunity to find out who he really was.
summary
No matter how careful you are, we all get sick all of a sudden.
However, the way you convey your message can make a big difference in the impression they have of you.
What you need to do is to just tell them the truth and apologize, instead of just saying, “I'm not feeling well, I can't help it! What you need to do is to just tell them the truth and apologize.
By doing so, no matter how many times you read on the Internet that you cancelled the date the day before because you didn't really want to go on the date, if you are sincere, he will believe you rather than the opinions on the Internet.
It's important to convey your honest feelings, rather than trying to be clever.